Seriously, I would been fine with my family in a 2-3 bedroom but in my area those are absolute pits so my wife and I both work to overpay for a 4 bed with more

Seriously, I would been fine with my family in a 2-3 bedroom but in my area those are absolute pits so my wife and I both work to overpay for a 4 bed with more space than we need (not just bedrooms, a "sitting room" we dont use, extra bathroom, hurts to look at our payments and know its under utilized)