You are grossly misinformed about the history and practice of Hinduism and Saivism. You're repeating stereotypes. Please cite your sources. Tell this to the So

You are grossly misinformed about the history and practice of Hinduism and Saivism. You're repeating stereotypes. Please cite your sources. Tell this to the South Indian Tamil who say Anbe Sivamayam, Satyame Parasivam (God is immanent love and transcendent reality). The "Siva as destroyer" is imagery is perpetuated by firstly Hindus who don't worship God as Siva (e.g. Vaishnava, who worship God as Kristna), secondly by the "spiritual but non religious" people of both Hindu heritage and not, and finally by e.g. Christians. In Saivism there is one aspect of Siva that is "destruction" but it is a synonym for "dissolution" and is not a scary aspect.