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May I ask if your son is an only child? I’ve thought about online homeschooling my son when he’s old enough (he’s still a baby), but I wonder if he would be lon
by justhereforthe 3y ago
May I ask if your son is an only child? I’ve thought about online homeschooling my son when he’s old enough (he’s still a baby), but I wonder if he would be lonely if he turns out to be our one-and-done. You mentioned your son’s beloved jiu-jitsu; does he have other outlets for meeting friends and socializing?
- mensetmanusman 3y agoAlmost all only children say that they were lonely. There is something special that happens sleeping in the same house as siblings.
- kQq9oHeAz6wLLS 3y agoOn the other hand, many of the only children I know (I'm close friends with 4, all from different backgrounds - one a non-US childhood) are all quite creative and independent people. Sometimes being allowed to be bored is excellent.
- aidenn0 3y agoMost only-childs wish they had siblings, and many one-of-manys wish they were only childs. My wife was raised as an only child and is stunned by how much our children fight with each other.
- clausok 3y agoHe has a younger sister. As for other outlets for making friends and socializing, team sports are indispensable. Also great, and surprisingly underutilized -- in my observation -- are playgrounds. With playgrounds you get the best part of school, recess, without the rest of it. If parents would look up from their phones for a minute and watch what's going on in playgrounds they'd be amazed. Recently I saw about 20 kids, across a wide age range, hold a spontaneous, well-organized game of Among Us. You won't just make friends there; you'll run in Draco Malfoys too; and that's also valuable.