So grown ups in a country where children aren't allowed to be home schooled generally believe that their children "belong to society"? At what point do we call

So grown ups in a country where children aren't allowed to be home schooled generally believe that their children "belong to society"? At what point do we call it culture and "difference of opinion" as opposed to just plain old indoctrination or brainwashing? It's not a left vs right issue, this is freedom vs tyranny. Right now the left isn't able see it as Tyranny or indoctrination because their predominant opinions and values are being taught to children, so it's convenient. It's another form of "civilizing those barbarian <insert unfavorable group here>". At the end of the day, I don't belong to society, and neither do my children. They belong to themselves and can choose for themselves how they see fit. Until then, I'll instill my values to them, and make sure they treat their fellow beings better than the way "society" treats them.