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Dealing with bullies is something you'll definitely see later in life. I'm glad I learned how to shut it down quick or avoid it altogether earlier rather than
by doubled112 3y ago
Dealing with bullies is something you'll definitely see later in life.
I'm glad I learned how to shut it down quick or avoid it altogether earlier rather than later.
Being let out into the world thinking everybody loves you sounds like a terrifying idea too.
- SoftTalker 3y agoWhat do you do to quickly shut down an adult bully?
- KoftaBob 3y agoSleep with their wife
- doubled112 3y agoWell that escalated quickly. Are you also taking photos for blackmail purposes? That'd very possibly shut the whole thing down.
- doubled112 3y agoIt really depends. If it's a peer in a more professional setting, simply calling them out generally makes you less a target, especially if calling out their behaviour is done in a group setting. It comes down to the old "stand up for yourself" rule we've all heard. Also, calm confidence tends to work with adults too. If the bullying is coming from above, time to move on. I have zero patience for it, and there's likely no stopping them. Also, I'm not suggesting you take them outside, although I know a couple guys who've been through fights between coworkers in their workplaces. Grown men (in their 30s) sure can take a long time to grow.
- wombat-man 3y agoYeah, that can be tough if it's coming from above and you need the paycheck.