>I don't even know if my partner had long term relationships before me -- I suspect yes, and I assume they haven't been married. Huh, well I guess different st

>I don't even know if my partner had long term relationships before me -- I suspect yes, and I assume they haven't been married. Huh, well I guess different strokes for different folks. The idea of dating someone & not picking up, as a matter of course, on whether or not they've ever had a previous relationship is baffling.