As opposed to living with a spouse that abused them/who they were not in love with, without a way to divorce. Or a huge percentage of people having to experienc

As opposed to living with a spouse that abused them/who they were not in love with, without a way to divorce. Or a huge percentage of people having to experience losing their children? It was simply not spoken about, people either poisoned their husband if it got that bad, or lived a sad life in silence.