The “don’t work too hard” crowd when you might be working harder than them and “must be nice” when you are relaxing more than them can both be avoided. People

The “don’t work too hard” crowd when you might be working harder than them and “must be nice” when you are relaxing more than them can both be avoided. People who don’t like anyone working more than them or enjoying life more than them are usually haters who are busy not doing much themselves. Raising the bar doesn’t mean having to make it more work for everyone. Those doubt worshipping and self-sabotaging enemies aren’t worth having in your life but it is nice to give a bit of shit about them too. Move at your pace to wearers what you want and you will find like minded people.