> multiple girls who said that my message was "unfair" or "selfish". When I enquired why, it was because it "created an obligation Oy, another reason why onlin

> multiple girls who said that my message was "unfair" or "selfish". When I enquired why, it was because it "created an obligation Oy, another reason why online dating is so terrible. They're purposely on a dating site, looking to meet people; they created a detailed personal profile describing themselves, which attracted someone's attention; yet it's "unfair" or "selfish" to write a non-generic message? WTF! I guess that's a case of bullet dodged. Not sure I want someone with that attitude. But after you dodge all the bullets, what's left? It should actually be a lot easier to say "not interested" online to strangers than it is to say it to someone's face in person. On the other hand, it should also be a lot easier online to be at least semi-interested and have a little conversation before you judge someone as a hard no. I think this goes back to my point that a lot of people seem to be on the dating apps without having any serious commitment to dating. They're just waiting for their knight in shining armor or prince with glass slipper to come along (who never does).