The problem I see is that we have seen progress for women in this space, but not for men. Women are objectified. The attention a woman receives is related to w

The problem I see is that we have seen progress for women in this space, but not for men. Women are objectified. The attention a woman receives is related to what she is, not what she does. It's very straightforward to apply this to dating: just look good and confident. Men are subjectified. The attention a man gets receives is related to what he does, not what he is. It's very tricky to navigate this in dating. How does someone present their interests in a way that is attractive? This is further complicated by the most common narratives we hear about men's behavior. Masculine behavior is a looming threat. Every man must prove himself not a predator. But how?