> I’ve never understood how asking out strangers in bars or on the street is supposed to yield high quality matches. Plus, I have the feeling that asking out w

> I’ve never understood how asking out strangers in bars or on the street is supposed to yield high quality matches. Plus, I have the feeling that asking out women is considered increasingly rude. > Developing crushes on people you actually know in your social scenes is more reasonable. This is certainly an option for people in their 20s, or maybe in very mixed professions with a lot of interactions, but not an option for a lot of us who don't have a rich social life. Plus a lot of people refrain dating people at work. I still feel dating apps are the best option, even though they don't work for me anymore since I'm past 40.