It just does not add up for me. > Men are more likely to say they got no matches on a dating site and complain Does not really align with the fact that men te

It just does not add up for me. > Men are more likely to say they got no matches on a dating site and complain Does not really align with the fact that men tend to brag about their experience (hence: every single match is mentioned to friends) > women are more likely to keep quiet of they get few to no matches and exaggerate the number they do get. But they don't keep quiet, they complain about the quality of the men on display. And the ones who are successful usually don't mention it openly, to avoid negative connotations about promiscuity and such. > Maybe men are more likely to blame the site or algorithm In my experience, men tend to compain about the women (namely their behavior to be too picky). As apparent in this discussion as a whole. > women are more likely to blame themselves As mentioned, they're likely to blame the choice ("the grapes are sour"), or, if they get any matches, the quality of their dates. > men must ask and make the first move in most cultures whereas women don't have to. It's the same on Bumble.