I watched American dating on recent trip. Even as a spectator sport, it’s enthralling. I would like to address the emotion you describe. Firstly, I doubt it’s

I watched American dating on recent trip. Even as a spectator sport, it’s enthralling. I would like to address the emotion you describe. Firstly, I doubt it’s just men. I don’t know the simplest adjective, but I’d call the dating scene as “optimized” and “casino like”. Persistence and luck are not small components here. If anyone’s self worth ends up getting linked to the outcome of such a system, dropping out isnt unsurprising. It is also quite pointless, to tell someone who is lonely or young, to not treat the process personally.