"The second part of this is: if the things you want but have been excluded from are not good for you (another bottle of wine, the admission into the bathroom st

"The second part of this is: if the things you want but have been excluded from are not good for you (another bottle of wine, the admission into the bathroom stall to partake in a line of cocaine) then you should be glad that you are missing out. This is because the thing you are missing out on could harm your character—the big no-no for the Stoics" Sour grapes may be good nutrition for mental health.