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Not studying the research on optimally finding a marriage partner, and practicing the skills required to maintain and keep a healthy marriage. It turns out this
by lnwlebjel 3y ago
Not studying the research on optimally finding a marriage partner, and practicing the skills required to maintain and keep a healthy marriage. It turns out this is incredibly important for happiness later in life. I've made this much more difficult for myself through the choices I did make, and am suffering greatly because of it. Though it's not entirely clear that any such choice would have led to a better outcome. Happily ever after is the anomaly in my experience.
- leosanchez 3y ago> Not studying the research on optimally finding a marriage partner Do you have any material that would help ?
- ridiculous_leke 3y agoHad the same question. There's a lot of unsubstantiated stuff on this as this is not exactly a hard science.
- lnwlebjel 3y agoI don't but Optimal Stopping Theory is interesting. However, and informed choice would have been better. Also, looking carefully at the family they come from because at first order that is close to what you'll get.
- BOOSTERHIDROGEN 3y agoWould like to know the research.
- bfjdkdn 3y agoJohn Gottman has awesome advice for couples based on research. Read one of his books, it could save your marriage. Throwing away my marriage is the worst decision I ever made. Never give up.