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Okay, but imagine another Director of Engineering who - Is responsible for managing large multi-year projects across multiple timezones and basically offloads

Okay, but imagine another Director of Engineering who - Is responsible for managing large multi-year projects across multiple timezones and basically offloads all of his responsibilities to his direct reports and just asks for status reports now and then - Is not just not filtering the shit from above but is also a source of shit from above - diffuses blame downwards instead of taking any for himself, cuts people under him and is never disciplined when projects fail. He makes as much or more than the guy you report to. Who holds him accountable? His other buddies in upper management? Maybe eventually, but let's be real here. If he ever does get fired he gets a golden parachute and worms his way in at another company in no time. Maybe this isn't true at the middle manager-y layer, but it's definitely a pattern we've seen plenty of examples of with executives and other upper management types.

johnny99k 3y ago
I have had co-workers that got paid the same amount as me and did much less (and knew less). This happens with any job and is not exclusive to management. This sounds like /antiwork fan fiction.
- lazide 3y ago
  It’s often ‘I killed myself making everything perfect, and that asshole didn’t even say thanks!’. Some bosses encourage it, some bosses try to discourage it (and fail), some bosses don’t even notice. Been on both sides. In the end, the ‘hero’ is usually the one that is the actual problem, unfortunately, and can’t stop.
lazide 3y ago
The accountability comes from the people under him leaving/actual poor results, or doing poor work because of burnout, resulting in poor results. If it works well enough though, he’s fine. A lot of folks don’t realize their value when they’re burning themselves out making your case look good, which enables it, and not even getting paid for the effort. Those people often rant the exact same way you are, while not changing their behavior. They also tend to be the most angry when their part is make clear though. So I guess it’s a good thing it’s at least semi anonymous here?
- zmgsabst 3y ago
  How is other people suffering him experiencing accountability?
  - lazide 3y ago
    What does suffering have to do with accountability, if everything important keeps working, no laws are broken, and the org meets its metrics? If they leave and things blow up, then that impacts things no? Accountability is about ensuring someone gets held to account for the results of their actions. Accountability doesn’t mean ‘they pay because I’m unhappy’. It means ‘if they break the law, they get punished’. Or ‘if they break the org or don’t deliver results their bosses want they get fired.’. Being a dick of a boss isn’t illegal. Burning people out (when they do it voluntarily) isn’t illegal. Things they may be doing that cause that tend to be purely subjective and individual, and many people will disagree it’s even happening! Punishing them for those may be vengeance, or revenge, lashing out, or whatever. And since no one can make someone happy (or unhappy), and there isn’t even an objective measure of it, society generally doesn’t care about that legally. What would accountability mean in those cases then? Going to jail because people don’t like you as a boss? Making a hostile work environment is already against the law and actionable, if it can be proven. It’s a reasonably high bar though, and most environments people are pissed about around here likely don’t meet it. It’s up to everyone individually to make those decisions and tradeoffs. They’re accountable for the results of continuing to work somewhere, or not, for instance. It’s a two way street. In the sense of; “The law, in its majestic equality, forbids rich and poor alike to sleep under bridges, to beg in the streets, and to steal their bread.” ― Anatole France It may not be great, but other alternatives are so prone to abuse and shittiness that I personally haven’t seen many better alternatives.

johnny99k 3y ago

I have had co-workers that got paid the same amount as me and did much less (and knew less). This happens with any job and is not exclusive to management. This sounds like /antiwork fan fiction.

lazide 3y ago
It’s often ‘I killed myself making everything perfect, and that asshole didn’t even say thanks!’. Some bosses encourage it, some bosses try to discourage it (and fail), some bosses don’t even notice. Been on both sides. In the end, the ‘hero’ is usually the one that is the actual problem, unfortunately, and can’t stop.

lazide 3y ago

The accountability comes from the people under him leaving/actual poor results, or doing poor work because of burnout, resulting in poor results. If it works well enough though, he’s fine. A lot of folks don’t realize their value when they’re burning themselves out making your case look good, which enables it, and not even getting paid for the effort. Those people often rant the exact same way you are, while not changing their behavior. They also tend to be the most angry when their part is make clear though. So I guess it’s a good thing it’s at least semi anonymous here?

zmgsabst 3y ago
How is other people suffering him experiencing accountability?
- lazide 3y ago
  What does suffering have to do with accountability, if everything important keeps working, no laws are broken, and the org meets its metrics? If they leave and things blow up, then that impacts things no? Accountability is about ensuring someone gets held to account for the results of their actions. Accountability doesn’t mean ‘they pay because I’m unhappy’. It means ‘if they break the law, they get punished’. Or ‘if they break the org or don’t deliver results their bosses want they get fired.’. Being a dick of a boss isn’t illegal. Burning people out (when they do it voluntarily) isn’t illegal. Things they may be doing that cause that tend to be purely subjective and individual, and many people will disagree it’s even happening! Punishing them for those may be vengeance, or revenge, lashing out, or whatever. And since no one can make someone happy (or unhappy), and there isn’t even an objective measure of it, society generally doesn’t care about that legally. What would accountability mean in those cases then? Going to jail because people don’t like you as a boss? Making a hostile work environment is already against the law and actionable, if it can be proven. It’s a reasonably high bar though, and most environments people are pissed about around here likely don’t meet it. It’s up to everyone individually to make those decisions and tradeoffs. They’re accountable for the results of continuing to work somewhere, or not, for instance. It’s a two way street. In the sense of; “The law, in its majestic equality, forbids rich and poor alike to sleep under bridges, to beg in the streets, and to steal their bread.” ― Anatole France It may not be great, but other alternatives are so prone to abuse and shittiness that I personally haven’t seen many better alternatives.