> Last year I was on a date, and, [...] I had not seen this. And some people who are closer to "hyperobservant" in many contexts might've also missed that sigh

> Last year I was on a date, and, [...] I had not seen this. And some people who are closer to "hyperobservant" in many contexts might've also missed that sight -- because they were in a social context, and focused almost entirely on the conversation with the other person.