So you're a man, presumably born as such, and with the stereotypical anatomy thereof. You also acknowledge that you have somewhat idiosyncratic preferences, and

So you're a man, presumably born as such, and with the stereotypical anatomy thereof. You also acknowledge that you have somewhat idiosyncratic preferences, and the "stuff" you have in mind doesn't fit in pockets anyway. And yet you have the audacity to tell other people what to do, based on your n=1 experience, with the implication that if they just did what you did they'd be happier. That's utter nonsense and defies logic.