I fully agree, also on the practical side it's likely there are rational reasons why not to do a certain activity. E.g. about sharing a side project, maybe the

I fully agree, also on the practical side it's likely there are rational reasons why not to do a certain activity. E.g. about sharing a side project, maybe the person cannot really stand up for an idea, in fact it might be hard to explain without the right context and would stop the project despite being doable. Life isn't a computer game anyway...