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Ugly psychology truths nobody wants to admit

k310 3y ago
some of the harshest realities are that TwiXter shows only one item unless you log in. And people say that it’s an essential tool to get the word out. Very few words outside of the Mickey Musk Club.
- notanothereric 3y ago
  Try googling the titke - the content is cross posted to other sites including a Youtube interview… That being said, free self help psychology is worth about what you pay for it ..
ccvannorman 3y ago
Clicked link. - Bold claim in attention seeking post. - No additional content/comments/retweets are visible. - Press the X to close. - Whoops, that's the logo, now I'm on the home page. *I hate the new internet
hresvelgr 3y ago
https://en.rattibha.com/thread/1676925337194704897 https://en.rattibha.com/thread/1676925337194704897 If someone has an archived link that would be better.
revx 3y ago
This kind of hyper-masculine "men need to feel powerful" stuff is pure patriarchy. So much of this stuff is societal, not biological, and yet it's presented as truth. Highly recommend _The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love_ by bell hooks, if you're looking for a book about Men's suffering that actually looks at how men need to be cared for and loved. @watchfulcoyote on tiktok also has really great content, if you want something more shortform and digestible.
- 3cats-in-a-coat 3y ago
  TIL testosterone is social.
- southernplaces7 3y ago
  I beg to differ. While there are always exceptions, no amount of modern social contortion and correctness is going to just erase many thousands of years of innate tendencies among men. Masculinity and its connections to dominance traits and aggression among men is not just some bullshit social construction. Anyone who claims that is either trying to politicize mountains of observed evidence or completely naive.
atlas_hugged 3y ago
So many dog whistles in one place
- southernplaces7 3y ago
  Feel like defining that more precisely?
antman 3y ago
Link: https://en.rattibha.com/thread/1676925337194704897 https://en.rattibha.com/thread/1676925337194704897

k310 3y ago

some of the harshest realities are that TwiXter shows only one item unless you log in. And people say that it’s an essential tool to get the word out. Very few words outside of the Mickey Musk Club.

notanothereric 3y ago
Try googling the titke - the content is cross posted to other sites including a Youtube interview… That being said, free self help psychology is worth about what you pay for it ..

ccvannorman 3y ago

Clicked link. - Bold claim in attention seeking post. - No additional content/comments/retweets are visible. - Press the X to close. - Whoops, that's the logo, now I'm on the home page. *I hate the new internet

hresvelgr 3y ago

https://en.rattibha.com/thread/1676925337194704897 https://en.rattibha.com/thread/1676925337194704897 If someone has an archived link that would be better.

revx 3y ago

This kind of hyper-masculine "men need to feel powerful" stuff is pure patriarchy. So much of this stuff is societal, not biological, and yet it's presented as truth. Highly recommend _The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love_ by bell hooks, if you're looking for a book about Men's suffering that actually looks at how men need to be cared for and loved. @watchfulcoyote on tiktok also has really great content, if you want something more shortform and digestible.

3cats-in-a-coat 3y ago
TIL testosterone is social.
southernplaces7 3y ago
I beg to differ. While there are always exceptions, no amount of modern social contortion and correctness is going to just erase many thousands of years of innate tendencies among men. Masculinity and its connections to dominance traits and aggression among men is not just some bullshit social construction. Anyone who claims that is either trying to politicize mountains of observed evidence or completely naive.

atlas_hugged 3y ago

So many dog whistles in one place

southernplaces7 3y ago
Feel like defining that more precisely?

antman 3y ago

Link: https://en.rattibha.com/thread/1676925337194704897 https://en.rattibha.com/thread/1676925337194704897