On the other hand, I know some families torn apart over continents. Father in canada, mother in germany. Internet helps only so much for the kids ... in general

On the other hand, I know some families torn apart over continents. Father in canada, mother in germany. Internet helps only so much for the kids ... in general, relocating with family is a different thing. All of those involved would have to find a new home, friends, etc. that is quite different to moving, when you on your own. "BTW if you know somebody of those, who can decently code, let me know… because I do not find them!!!" And depending on what you are looking for and what you can offer, I would be willing to relocate, if the conditions are right. Email is in my profile.