> now as a father, is terrified of inflicting the same wounds onto his son Anyone who at least has that worry is still way ahead of those who had an absentee f

> now as a father, is terrified of inflicting the same wounds onto his son Anyone who at least has that worry is still way ahead of those who had an absentee father (or parent) and doesn't think it caused them any harm even though it obviously did. I've met both kinds.