I'm very direct and honest with them about things just like this. I don't hold punches. I teach them to work the problem [1] instead of whining or wasting time

I'm very direct and honest with them about things just like this. I don't hold punches. I teach them to work the problem [1] instead of whining or wasting time on spinning their mental tires. [1] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z0h2Wk6-C_I https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z0h2Wk6-C_I