An approach to think about: If someone is making you angry, they are controlling you. I haven't really tried that in the real world, and I don't think you can

An approach to think about: If someone is making you angry, they are controlling you. I haven't really tried that in the real world, and I don't think you can phrase it exactly like that to someone who is angry in the moment, it will just make them more angry. But if you have a loved one who is being controlled by someone else's anger, it may be worth thinking about how you might communicate the idea.