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I don't understand it myself. "I don't mind if people see X, but I'm bothered if they can prove it" is such a bizarre attitude to me.
by causi 3y ago
I don't understand it myself. "I don't mind if people see X, but I'm bothered if they can prove it" is such a bizarre attitude to me.
- amalcon 3y agoI've known people who e.g. had justified worries about their children being kidnapped by a noncustodial parent. Someone in that situation doesn't necessarily mind if their neighbor sees their kid playing, but would mind quite a bit if said neighbor posted video of same to social media.
- MerelyMortal 3y agoI don't mind acting silly doing kareoke at a bar in front of some random stragers, because it will only go as far as their memory, but I do mind if a video of it is uploaded to the internet.
- JohnFen 3y agoThere's a rather enormous difference between people seeing a thing and people recording a thing and, even more impactfully, distributing that recording or using it to populate databases.
- hightrix 3y agoHave you truly never had a conversation or real world interaction with someone that you didn't want recorded and then posted to the internet?
- causi 3y agoIn public? Sure, but only because I was being an asshole, lying, or both.