I am currently avoiding two relatives because they're always so upset. I agree with them almost entirely, but I don't want to be around people who are apoplecti

I am currently avoiding two relatives because they're always so upset. I agree with them almost entirely, but I don't want to be around people who are apoplectic. Yes, war is bad, but please just stop yelling at me just because I'm the only one in the room making eye contact! "The Problem" is hyperbole. I've never wanted to defend something awful more than after having to hear an hour long angry rant, even when I agree.