Let me explain something to you: if every time you don't know something you start bitching about it and ask everyone around you until you wear them down to ELI5

Let me explain something to you: if every time you don't know something you start bitching about it and ask everyone around you until you wear them down to ELI5 you are dragging everyone down. This is not about that one instance where 5 minutes saves you days of struggling. This is about becoming and being self sufficient to the point you are an asset to the business, not your liability. In your convoluted example: how do you know who the expert is?