No, the problem is deeper than just individual misbehaviour. To accommodate those men who call themselves women and demand that everyone else see them as women

No, the problem is deeper than just individual misbehaviour. To accommodate those men who call themselves women and demand that everyone else see them as women too, what has happened is practically every female-only space has been co-opted for this purpose, typically without the consent of the women who use those spaces. Women shouldn't have to put up with this violation of boundaries that has been forced upon them. There's no reason why males have to be incarcerated in women's prisons, compete in women's sports, or indeed be in any space for women. Your proposal for speed dating is part of the problem too, as you again ignore the impact upon women and consider only the male perspective. Lesbian women should be well within their rights to draw a boundary that says no males allowed, and not be punished for it. > But people being trans is not the problem. Technically, you are correct. But as I'm sure you know, it is very, very rare that you'll find a so-called 'trans women' who doesn't use female spaces and has no intention of ever doing so. For the rest: each and every one of those males who use or demand to use female-only spaces is a problem.