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> Change your job. Change your relationship. Change the city where you live. Change your primary hobby. Change your friends. Go back to school or start a busine
by amerkhalid 3y ago
> Change your job. Change your relationship. Change the city where you live. Change your primary hobby. Change your friends. Go back to school or start a business. Go somewhere you've never been before, the further away the better.
Agreed. It worked for me, at least, when it came to job. I was feeling stuck in my last job. There was nothing to complain about but something didn't feel right. Switching job improved my mood 100%.
Just a fair warning, after initial excitement of new job dies down, you may get buyer's remorse and miss your old job a lot. It was comfortable, you knew what you needed to do, you had built up respect and reputation. Now you will need to start over; just work hard through this period until it passes. Soon excitement and energy will return to you and you will be glad that you switched your job.
- mooonnnsooon 3y agoI second those who write about quiting and moving as a potential "buyers remorse" situation or just as a not-solution. I moved to a different country. Found a partner but the emotional heavyness is still in me. I am slowly waking up to the fact that I need friends that can handle my emotional state and who will support me. But how to find them in a new country ... You know, moving and changing is good(for some) but be careful with burning bridges.