There is just no alternative. If you want to self host a site your ISP won't let you. If you want to self host email, none of your messages will get through.

There is just no alternative. If you want to self host a site your ISP won't let you. If you want to self host email, none of your messages will get through. 15 years ago I could host a site at home. Today, it can't be done. Want to regulate something... Make ISP's allow for self hosting. My 5 year old android phone has the power to host a small personal site, but my ISP won't let it happen.