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Cut the woe is me bullshit. It's totally fine to be focused on your salary or think that things could be better, but to acting like you're barely scraping by on

Cut the woe is me bullshit. It's totally fine to be focused on your salary or think that things could be better, but to acting like you're barely scraping by on a 100k a year is so fucking tone deaf it's borderline offensive. Maybe it's just because all my closest friends work non-tech jobs and I see their struggles compared to mine, but it really irks me when tech workers act slighted about their salaries. Responding to your points, first, inflation calculators exist. 100k today is a little over 75k 10 years ago. Coincidentally, that's exactly how much I was making in 2014 living in a HCOL city, so I'm well aware exactly how far that goes. I definitely had money to save up for a house, but it still would have taken years of budgeting for me to get a down payment together for a starter home. Similar to 100k now, it was more than I needed to live a decent day to day life, but I still needed to plan for longer term financial goals. Second, the average US salary is something like 55k. Even today a 100k salary would put your salary in the top 25% for US workers. I know plenty of junior developers with 1-2 years of experience making a good bit more than that. Even the low end of developer salaries puts you well above what most people in the US make. Obviously where you live matters, but in pretty much every region most non-tech employees will make less than your average developer at the same level of experience. Tech (in the US) pays very well and I don't any other industry pays better compared to the amount of work needed to get your foot in the door. We've had it very, very good for a long time and even if things cool off a little bit, we're still going to have it far better than most. All this makes me think of is "When you're accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression"

akomtu 3y ago
Top 25% among agriculture workers in Kansas? The newgrad earning those 100k will have to live sonewhere in Northern California, where rent alone will claw 25k back for a crappy apartment. After IRS takes another 25k and food expenses another 25k, our new grad is left with just 25k to save for a 200k downpayment and 7.5k/month (is this the current rate?) mortgage payment.
- cko 3y ago
  I was with you until the 25k food expenses. 2k a month on food?
- superfrank 3y ago
  Every comment you make just shows how disconnected from reality you are. > Top 25% among agriculture workers in Kansas? Top 25 across all us workers > The newgrad earning those 100k will have to live sonewhere in Northern California, where rent alone will claw 25k back for a crappy apartment Yes, I know. I lived as a new grad making 75k in a major city (Los Angeles, not bay area though). Rent is expensive and will likely take 1/3 of your paycheck or more. It's been like that for years though and that's not something that's changed recently. It also doesn't negate the fact that our industry still pays far better than most. > food expenses another 25k The fuck are you eating? If you're spending 2k a month on food you don't get to complain about money. I hate cooking and love good food and regularly spend $1500 a month on dining, but I'm well aware that if I needed to I could drop that by $1000. Spending $2k a month on food is choice you're making. > save for a 200k downpayment and 7.5k/month (is this the current rate?) mortgage payment. Who is saving 200k for a down payment? The days of 20% down are long gone and pretty much everyone gets PMI. Especially for your first home you can cut that in half. Also, why are you as a new grad buying a million dollar home? Where did you get this idea that a new grad's salary should allow you to purchase a long term home in a major city without making some financial trade offs? That has never been the case. Your expectations are completely disconnected from reality and you're comparing your situation to a reality that never existed. You can either wait until you're further along in your career and your salary is higher to buy, buy something cheaper (don't say this isn't possible, I know for a fact it is in), or move to an area with a lower cost of living.
- asadotzler 3y ago
  $15K should feed a family of four in the Bay area for a year. How on earth do you spend $25K on food for one person?
pekantdook 3y ago
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akomtu 3y ago

Top 25% among agriculture workers in Kansas? The newgrad earning those 100k will have to live sonewhere in Northern California, where rent alone will claw 25k back for a crappy apartment. After IRS takes another 25k and food expenses another 25k, our new grad is left with just 25k to save for a 200k downpayment and 7.5k/month (is this the current rate?) mortgage payment.

cko 3y ago
I was with you until the 25k food expenses. 2k a month on food?
superfrank 3y ago
Every comment you make just shows how disconnected from reality you are. > Top 25% among agriculture workers in Kansas? Top 25 across all us workers > The newgrad earning those 100k will have to live sonewhere in Northern California, where rent alone will claw 25k back for a crappy apartment Yes, I know. I lived as a new grad making 75k in a major city (Los Angeles, not bay area though). Rent is expensive and will likely take 1/3 of your paycheck or more. It's been like that for years though and that's not something that's changed recently. It also doesn't negate the fact that our industry still pays far better than most. > food expenses another 25k The fuck are you eating? If you're spending 2k a month on food you don't get to complain about money. I hate cooking and love good food and regularly spend $1500 a month on dining, but I'm well aware that if I needed to I could drop that by $1000. Spending $2k a month on food is choice you're making. > save for a 200k downpayment and 7.5k/month (is this the current rate?) mortgage payment. Who is saving 200k for a down payment? The days of 20% down are long gone and pretty much everyone gets PMI. Especially for your first home you can cut that in half. Also, why are you as a new grad buying a million dollar home? Where did you get this idea that a new grad's salary should allow you to purchase a long term home in a major city without making some financial trade offs? That has never been the case. Your expectations are completely disconnected from reality and you're comparing your situation to a reality that never existed. You can either wait until you're further along in your career and your salary is higher to buy, buy something cheaper (don't say this isn't possible, I know for a fact it is in), or move to an area with a lower cost of living.
asadotzler 3y ago
$15K should feed a family of four in the Bay area for a year. How on earth do you spend $25K on food for one person?

pekantdook 3y ago

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