Join a non-affiliated cross fit gym. You will see the same crowd every week. After a while, maybe grab a coffee. Fellow regulars will become acquaintances and

Join a non-affiliated cross fit gym. You will see the same crowd every week. After a while, maybe grab a coffee. Fellow regulars will become acquaintances and then friends. You will become more (conventionally) physically attractive, which will help with dating. Just try it, it will change your life.