Sure — good points. OP is of course free to live whatever life they think is best — and I wish them all the success at it. Calling other people “whiny” becaus

Sure — good points. OP is of course free to live whatever life they think is best — and I wish them all the success at it. Calling other people “whiny” because you choose to live a life where you’re underpaid (as you put it, “crab bucket mentality”) is unhealthy and what I should have focused my criticism on.