I was going to post something like this. I would even argue that you didn't fail. You did exactly what you actually desired This is an opportunity to introspec

I was going to post something like this. I would even argue that you didn't fail. You did exactly what you actually desired This is an opportunity to introspect on why your actions didn't align with whatever goals you set. Maybe you don't actually want to reach the goal at all. As with anything else. The value of the journey isn't an illusionary destination, but rather what you learn along the way. You'll likely find that you don't follow the path you imagined, likely because you found something more exciting along the way. It's as if the goal is some sort of sacred object for change rather than something to be obtained.