I think there's a subtle but important difference between "what you wear sends a message" and "you'll judge me based on what I wear." You're shifting the agenc

I think there's a subtle but important difference between "what you wear sends a message" and "you'll judge me based on what I wear." You're shifting the agency away from yourself - to make a choice about what message you're going to send (by how you're dressed) - to others, making them out to be shallow for receiving the message you send and processing it accordingly, no?