I struggled with this for years (decades, actually) and used similar reasoning as the sibling comments. And it doesn’t work. Funnily enough the solution is ve

I struggled with this for years (decades, actually) and used similar reasoning as the sibling comments. And it doesn’t work. Funnily enough the solution is very simple, but you need to have a list of goals you want to reach. Everything that helps you get closer to fulfilling your goals is important, everything else is unimportant.