"Suffering" charity is also often unsustainable, hurting the people who depend on the charity in the long run. It can even be a mental disease; some people get

"Suffering" charity is also often unsustainable, hurting the people who depend on the charity in the long run. It can even be a mental disease; some people get a dopamine boost by giving money to others at the expense of their basic welfare. Not saying it is the case here, I'm just supporting your argument.