I haven't met many monogamous couples under a certain age that have had things work out well either though. My parents will celebrate their 50th wedding annive

I haven't met many monogamous couples under a certain age that have had things work out well either though. My parents will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary next year. I am pretty sure if they were younger there is no way they would not have got divorced. They are not unhappy but they are so different that there is no way one would not have thought they could do better if the early part of the marriage had been lived in modern times. For me, being single is the ultimate form of being poly. I am committed to all the shorter relationships I have yet to experience in my life. I have had several chances to be in true poly relationships but there has always been at least one, really annoying person with nothing else going on than being poly. Then every topic of conversation is about being poly and that is when I check out. The idea of poly being mainstream is ridiculous because it is hard to find a single compatible person in time. True poly just multiplies the amount of incompatibility.