Of course there are plenty of bad interactions. And yes, we'll remember and weight the bad long after we forget the good. If you see life as a zero sum game, t

Of course there are plenty of bad interactions. And yes, we'll remember and weight the bad long after we forget the good. If you see life as a zero sum game, then you are primed to distrust everyone and everything. This mistrust is often well-placed. The inability to separate good suggestions from bad ones though is a flaw. Some can be objectively good, perhaps more easily seen by a neutral outsider, and yet still be fought against. Because if we're not fighting then we're fools?