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Something I think I've noticed is that our modern culture assumes exclusivity after the first date; contrast with (my very poorly understanding of), say, the Vi
by RangerScience 3y ago
Something I think I've noticed is that our modern culture assumes exclusivity after the first date; contrast with (my very poorly understanding of), say, the Victorian era, where multiple suitors were common. People end up turning to poly because we don't do that early multiple-suitors period.
- xyzelement 3y agoI have not encountered any expectations of exclusivity after a first date. There is sometimes an assumption that you are not banging other people once you start sleeping w someone but even that is usually best left to confirmation.
- latchkey 3y ago> I have not encountered any expectations of exclusivity after a first date. I have!