Indeed, making men willing to work hard to provide for their family has been pretty awesome psyop. I really can't see any downsides if civilized society is the

Indeed, making men willing to work hard to provide for their family has been pretty awesome psyop. I really can't see any downsides if civilized society is the ultimate goal. I can just imagine how it feels when the ruler has a big harem and you don't really have a realistic chance for creating a family, but I don't think it makes you work harder once you realize it.