One of my past awesome significant others, I found due to something like some of the awareness talked about here. She'd made a post on a dating site, asking, s

One of my past awesome significant others, I found due to something like some of the awareness talked about here. She'd made a post on a dating site, asking, simply, what was your favorite part of the city, and why. I responded with something about the different atmospheres of rather small areas, where the transitions are, etc. I won, and our first date was to be a lunch break from her science lab work on a weekend. But after lunch we played hooky, and walked all around town and talked for many hours, ending up sitting on a harbor wharf. Where one of the boats we saw was a ferry to the Cape Cod area, which I suggested as our second date. We just explored it without plans or arrangements. (Much later, her heightened awareness grew to realizing that she could do better than me, :) but we did have some shared understanding and values about the world, and a lot of that was about perceiving, like when on walks.)