It's acceptable to change your identity and presentation as often as necessary to accurately reflect your self understanding. Lying about it to gain access to

It's acceptable to change your identity and presentation as often as necessary to accurately reflect your self understanding. Lying about it to gain access to an event not intended for you is dishonest and asocial at the very best. And completely unrelated to norms around self-identification, except that it is crudely taking advantage of them.