I've actually met more friends off of OKC than I've had dates, and the SOs I've found from OKC have been fine with keeping the profile up -- you just mark yours

I've actually met more friends off of OKC than I've had dates, and the SOs I've found from OKC have been fine with keeping the profile up -- you just mark yourself as not looking, and meet people off the site as mutual friends, assuming you're in a "serious" relationship.