that's a good point. not finding a partner is not because of to much work, but because of not thinking about finding a partner. which i think can also be inter

that's a good point. not finding a partner is not because of to much work, but because of not thinking about finding a partner. which i think can also be interpreted as: if you didn't think about finding a partner, then maybe you weren't ready to get married. but you are ready now, because now you know why you want a partner, and now you can look for the right kind of person.