Go travel. But… you don’t really like backpacking, always moving and 6am starts and getting drunk like all the other travellers, and meeting people is hard so i

Go travel. But… you don’t really like backpacking, always moving and 6am starts and getting drunk like all the other travellers, and meeting people is hard so instead travel as a geek: find tech conferences to go to, meet other nerds. Rip up those Lonely Planet books and just ask for recommendations (special experiences that need to be booked excepted!) I would probably do more chill holidays like yoga retreats. Live in a big city too. Too many small minded people otherwise. Sorry HNers excepted! More than all of that: dump toxic relationships super fast: you know somethings up just jettison that shit. Only exception is your kids. No one else gets unconditional! Change phone numbers if you have to, etc.