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[deleted, thank you for giving me more to read (: ]

• msmithstubbs 3y ago
  Jake has his own site where he shares his essays here: https://jakeseliger.com https://jakeseliger.com
  • notamy 3y ago
    Thank you! I’ll give it a read.
• SethMLarson 3y ago
  Jake has written their experience elsewhere (and is linked to many times in the article, too) for example: https://jakeseliger.com/2023/08/27/on-being-ready-to-die-and-yet-also-now-being-able-to-swallow-slurries-including-ice-cream/ https://jakeseliger.com/2023/08/27/on-being-ready-to-die-and...
  • notamy 3y ago
    Thank you (: I will be sure to read this.
• getoj 3y ago
  Suffering from a serious (physical or mental) illness and caring for a sufferer are obviously different experiences, but I don’t think the perspective of the direct sufferer automatically ought to take priority. Caring is it’s own thing, it’s hard and lonely, and often the carers suffer longer. In the case of mental illness, the patient may forget the worst of what happened, and only the carer remembers literally pulling them back from the brink. In the case of physical illness, the patient’s death is not even the half way mark for the carer’s experience. My point is not to say that patients have it easy, but that both parties have their burdens to bear, and it is not necessary for every essay to cover both sides. Edit: I see you have deleted your comment, which is a shame, I don’t think you should be afraid to express this sentiment.