As someone not in a big money industry with lots of friends in tech (including the author of the post I submitted!), friends wanting to be treated right doesn't

As someone not in a big money industry with lots of friends in tech (including the author of the post I submitted!), friends wanting to be treated right doesn't cause me any envy. I correctly recognize them as being in the same boat even if they get a slightly better view while the person who owns it shoots holes in the hull.