You’re making a choice to view it that way. Try and phrase it like “you’re paying for a tool to help moderate your behavior”. Or as an example using your lens.

You’re making a choice to view it that way. Try and phrase it like “you’re paying for a tool to help moderate your behavior”. Or as an example using your lens. Paying for coffee is paying to take away your tiredness. You already have tiredness, tiredness is useful, sleep is good, why would you want to take away tiredness?