In intimate conversation —a case where both or all parties in the same space and time — there are additional ample side-channels for subtexts to be communicated

In intimate conversation —a case where both or all parties in the same space and time — there are additional ample side-channels for subtexts to be communicated, including both conflict-diminishing and conflict-escallating ones. From TFA, 5th paragraph, by some counts. And yes, I frequently read without comprehension, scan quickly, or misinterpret as well. The problems I'm describing seem to be universally, or at the very least quite broadly distributed.